For the birth of my first child, I did everything I was supposed to do. I read all the books and parenting magazines, watched birthing videos, attended the birthing classes, and talked extensively with my doctor. None of these sources truly prepared me for the awesomeness and horror of birth. Intellectually, I knew what to expect, but I was still stunned at the process. I held out as long as possible before asking for pain medication. But the greatest part is that the pain is almost completely gone with the birth of a beautiful baby. Holding that baby in your arms or against your chest is worth the hours of being uncomfortable. I was more prepared for the birth of my second child because experience is truly the best teacher.
I chose to share some of my birthing story because my children are the most important people to me. I am not 100% sure I understand how the birthing process impacts child development, but I am excited to find out.
Turkey
This European country has recently changed its approach to childbirth, according to Tulin Sevil, who comes from the capital city of Ankara. As recently as 20 or 30 years ago, midwives supervised most of the births in Turkey, especially in rural areas. Doctors were in short supply and most tended to practice in metropolitan areas, such as Ankara and Istanbul. But as more university medical schools were founded and the number of doctors increased, care shifted away from midwives in favor of ob-gyns.
from http://www.parenting.com/
Hi Stacy. I loved reading about your post. Although I am yet to give birth, from what I am told many mothers experience the same situation as you. It is extremely hard to prepare for the event and every types of situation-especially the pain. However, as you have said...once you see that child the pain goes away. As a result of my birthing experience I can say that it can have an impact on development. Sometimes for the good and some times for the bad. Personally, in my situation I was just happy that my mom and I both made it out alive and healthy.
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Stacy, your story is truly inspiring. I don't have any children yet, however, I'm getting married this year and my fiance' truly wants children. Hearing your story encourages me. I am slightly nervous about having children. But reading stories like yours and knowing that your children are the most important people to you lets me know that if I can be half the woman you and mom are...I may just be okay (and my kids too :-))!! Nice meeting you!
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